memorylost:

safety psa:

please use great caution when it comes to pendulum/tarot ‘kin reading blogs. it’s extremely dubious that these people genuinely have the power to tell you whether you are ‘kin or not, or to tell you the details of your past lives, especially based on a few sentences of (often anonymous) text given to them by submitters. finding out the details of your kintype is a highly personal experience, and it’s potentially damaging to put it in the hands of strangers who have no way of verifying that their information is correct. 

please use great caution asking others whether they remember you from a past life in general. it is extremely easy for others to use the information you post to manipulate you by claiming to have known you. exercise caution when others claim to have known you. it has become extremely common to make this claim, and it’s a little frightening because this is a huge red flag for spiritual abusers. this isn’t to say that everyone who makes these claims is an abuser, but that abusers use tactics like claiming to have known you in a past life (particularly claiming to have had a close relationship with you, or having been in a position of power over you) in order to get close to those they prey on.