Tag: asks

Is the drawing in your profil picture your faekintype? If yes, you’re very beautiful :3

I’m not actually faekin, I’m faehearted, so no, that isn’t me. My avatar is a lovely image of the Guthixian Butterfly, and you can find the original artwork here.

Runescape’s the first fandom I ever had and Lord Iban, my first soulbond, kind of kept me alive and still checks in on me every now and then, so Zamorak and Guthix are pretty close to my heart. That and I cried for like a week straight when I heard they killed off Guthix because rude.

(sorry if I’m annoying but I need to ask someone and I don’t know who) so I’m a bit confused now. I send a similar ask I send you to other blogs as well to get more tipps from different view points (thanks again by the way for the answer <3) but one called what I described as a shift instead of kin feels. I'm pretty new to the community and don't know all the term used here, especially since english is not my first language. Are these both just different terms for the same thing or..?

Not at all. Kinfeels is a very, very vague term that just means “otherkinity-related feelings and emotions”. Kinfeels can range from exotrauma to something that looks not unlike a period of mania, and everything in between.

Shifts, however, are a very different thing. Here is a guide to them that I hunted up for you. You should memorize it, probably, or bookmark it; and consult when needed. You’ll learn to tell the difference between different kinds of shifts in time.

And for the record, no; you’re not annoying me. Late responses are since I just got out of class. This is the most asks I’ve gotten in months, lemme tell you.

Hope that helps.

Oh, sorry, sure. Well sometimes when I’m on high places I have the huge urge do jump and fly like in old times. But I know that I can’t to it (because I would die…) and it makes me sad that is just doesn’t work but I have these feelings very often. Also when I look into the sky, I’d like to climb a tree and jump to fly and stuff…

Go get a motorcycle license, then learn how to break speeding laws reasonably. 

Or go learn how to zipline or hang-glide, I hear those two are good. Don’t jump out of a tree, though. Easy way to break bones.

Hey, just wanted to ask because I’m unsure how I should handle this situation. Did you tell people from you family that you’re otherkin?

Hahahaha, god no, they’d kill me and I don’t know if I mean that literally or not. Mind you, my family makes a pastime of gaslighting me and thinks nonbinary = intersex (I have them currently convinced I’m a cis lesbian because it’s just easier that way).

I really wouldn’t tell the biological family anything unless you know they will take it well. The advice I usually give is tell them about the phenomenon like it’s something you recently heard about, and see how they take to it. You want to have every argument antis pull and how to combat them memorized, because chances are you’ll be using them. If they take positively to it, then yeah, maybe you can tell them. If they take negatively, stop, do not pass go, do not collect 200$. 

It really depends on the family, but if yours is anything like mine, it’s a terrible idea. I for one am going to wait until I’m 26 and not financially dependent on them at all and am okay with getting disowned, just in case. 

But if you’re luckier than I am and they take positively to the idea, feel free to tell them, and let me know how that goes.

Hope that helps.