ranthimi:

I get that people with exotrauma shouldn’t necessarily talk about other-life trauma/trauma within a system in spaces that are meant exclusively for people in actively abusive situations or people with exclusively this-life, this-world trauma, but I also think there should be more spaces for people with exotrauma to discuss that and get support because it’s… definitely a thing that definitely sucks and can absolutely hurt just as much as trauma in a more traditional sense. You can do that without invalidating anyone.