(sorry if I’m annoying but I need to ask someone and I don’t know who) so I’m a bit confused now. I send a similar ask I send you to other blogs as well to get more tipps from different view points (thanks again by the way for the answer <3) but one called what I described as a shift instead of kin feels. I'm pretty new to the community and don't know all the term used here, especially since english is not my first language. Are these both just different terms for the same thing or..?

Not at all. Kinfeels is a very, very vague term that just means “otherkinity-related feelings and emotions”. Kinfeels can range from exotrauma to something that looks not unlike a period of mania, and everything in between.

Shifts, however, are a very different thing. Here is a guide to them that I hunted up for you. You should memorize it, probably, or bookmark it; and consult when needed. You’ll learn to tell the difference between different kinds of shifts in time.

And for the record, no; you’re not annoying me. Late responses are since I just got out of class. This is the most asks I’ve gotten in months, lemme tell you.

Hope that helps.